9 Red Flags: What every submissive must look out for while putting her trust into a Dom.

 Because someone asked me the question yesterday, here are the 9 red flags that every woman in India trying to find the right BDSM partner may look out for

1. If they don't care to get to know you.

If they don’t care about getting to know you then they probably just want sex, Sometimes you also many want that too but otherwise its a big red flag!  

2. If they don't take your needs into consideration.

Like every other relationship this too is one that is of give and take. Everyone has wants and needs, and when they are overlooked that is a massive red flag. Make sure your Dom is focused on your wants and needs. This is extremely important, especially when you are the one putting your trust into them.

3. It’s not a place for playing games and more so mind games.

We're not 5 years old playing Snakes and  Ladders. Trying to manipulate someone into something is not good for anyone, So if he deliberately tries to give attention to someone and tries to make you feel less its just a grade 6 tactics he is trying to employ. You can surely do better than having someone like that as your dom

4. If they only talk to you when they want to.

Just run for the woods!. There's a difference between when they want to talk to you and when they have time to talk to you. Know the difference.

5. They're secretive.

If they're not willing to share any information with you, LEAVE. We all care about our privacy and for many like me this can be an alternative lifestyle that may not really have any bearing to real life but you still need to make sure that you know the bare minimum about who you are going get into.

6. Having unrealistic expectations and failing to nurture you.

If they immediately expect you to know and adhere to their rules then that is a big RED FLAG. Your dom needs to  take out time to nurture the relationship and make you grow in it. 

7. They don't make time for you.

If they only talk to you at the late hours of the night, or every now and then, then they are not worth your time. Find someone who is willing to make the time for you. Remember that you are precious and if a person can't make time for you, hop on to the next one.

8. They fail to keep their words.

Remember this that you are going to put your trust into someone,  The DOM needs to show proof in his action that he is worthy of that trust,  If your dom tells you that they will do x, y, and z and when the time comes, they don't actually follow through with what they say then its a red flag you just can not ignore.

9. They don't respect you.

Do I really need to get into this one?

These red flags are easy to notice and can not be missed. Just be on the lookout fort them and I can assure you that you will have a real good time with your chosen one while exploring your BDSM journey,

Get initiated into BDSM, now taking submissive interns for the class of 2021

Are you like so many other women who are fascinated by BDSM but are not sure of this lifestyle is for you? If the answer is yes then this internship is for you and just go ahead and email me at cruelmaster777@gmail.com to book your spot in the class of 2021.  Its going to be the fourth batch and the outcome of the previous 3 batches has been very satisfying both for me as well as the interns, The pandemic did cause a break but now I am again excited to start the new batch,  Its a perfectly safe way to explore your sexuality and to discover your submissive side. 

What will you learn?

Through a series of Gmail chat session you will learn the following

- Find out if you are really a submissive or its just a fantasy

- Learn how you can gently initiate yourself in the BDSM lifestyle,

- Learn how to free yourself of any self doubts or guilt that trap most of beginners. 

- Learn the do's and the don'ts that you must follow if you are a beginner. This is the most important part to make sure that your safety is fully ensure in every aspect 

Who can Apply?

All females above the age of 18 can apply, During the google chats you should be able to go on voice chats when commanded, 

So hurry now and email me at ruelmaster777@gmail.com  as the spots are limited

How to find the right BDSM partner in Delhi, Gurgaon, Noida?

 If you have reached this page then I am assuming that you are looking really hard to get into the BDSM circles in Delhi. You know you can not openly talk about it and if you are a woman then you have other pressing concerns such as privacy, security etc. 

So How do you go about finding the right BDSM partner?

The best way to get the answer is to see how other people are finding their partners in Delhi.  Over the past 7 years I conducted survey amongst 100 BDSM practitioners I came across and here are the results:

Remember most of them are people like you who would have exhausted every option so you can take this data as a very good guide map before you also set out to find the right partner.

Most people Find their partners through personal introductions!

Yes this is right! And in my opinion too this is the safest and quickest way to get into the lifestyle. If you a a member of fetlife then you already know that these are just a waste of time.  And being in India you already know that it is not easy to get invite to munches and believe me that they are really non existent. You may not always get a chance to strike these conversations openly but be on the lookout and you will surely get an opportunity to discover that there are others like in the circles that you know!

Explore with your partner. Talk with your partner about it today!

Nearly all of us have a Dom or a Sub hidden deep within us. So just give it a chance. Do it as a fun roleplay activity with your partner. If not anything else the role play itself is going to add a little spice into your bedroom!