What every woman should know while looking for a BDSM experience in Delhi
Delhi is one place where if you are a woman you need to be sure of what you are getting into. I meet many women who are curious about the BDSM scene in Delhi but just don’t know where to start. Here are a few pointers that will help you in taking your first steps in the world of BDSM in a safe yet enjoyable way
- Be sure of what you want. BDSM can be many things for many people so you need to very sure of what you are looking for. For some its an alternative lifestyle where they indulge to find their real self without the fear of getting judged. For some it may not be a physical sexual play but a mental connect and exploration of their dark sides. And then there are people for whom its just another form of kinky sexual activity where one assumes the role of a Dom/Sub to spice up the sexual encounters. My suggestion is that unless you really want to experience a lifestyle you should stay away from it as finding a real Dom/Sub who also really understands the lifestyle and can be responsible about it is not easy.
- Be sure about your personality type: Its not very uncommon for people to not know about their personality type. Just because you are an independent person who is in control of their life does not mean that you are a Dom and just because you appear kind and giving to the world does not mean that you are a sub, A very good place to know about your real personality type is to take this BDSM Test
- Do not mistake erotica with BDSM : If the idea of being blind folded excites you then these can be fulfilled by pure erotic encounters and you do not need to go looking for bdsm. And yes actually this is one of the problems with us that when it comes to love making we do not innovate and experiment. Its always man on top or woman or top so whenever we read or see something a little bit different it looks exotic to us ! ‘
- BDSM is not 50 Shades of Grey: Just like what happens on the screen does not happen in real life the same is true for fiction too. So if your reason to try out BDSM is because of the fact that you just read 50 Shades of Grey then please reconsider!
- Read a lot about BDSM: If you already have not then read a lot about BDSM to increase your understanding about it. If you think that you are naturally a sub then read http://hustlerhollywoodstores.com/bdsm-101-how-to-be-a-good-submissive/
If you are looking to be a good dom then read this http://domcoaching.com/introduction-to-kink-being-dominant/
- Attend a munch: For the uninitialized munch is a social public gathering of people in a restaurant or public place. Because of the setting its usually the best place to meet like minded people. Now where to find a good genuine munch in delhi can be a task in itself, I hold munches once in a while around Hauz Khas Village so if you are interested just drop me a line at cruelmaster777@gmail.com
- Safety and Privacy is sacrosanct. This is something that I don’t need to talk about a lot when you are in Delhi. This is just a reminder just so that in the heat of things you forget!
Hopefully you find this useful and are able to make an informed decision about your first steps into the world of BDSM
