Do you know what BDSM actually stands for?
Its funny how we keep on hearing about BDSM and never google it to see what it stands for, Let me save you that effort.BDSM includes bondage and discipline (B&D), dominance and submission (D&S), and sadism & masochism (S&M) . Yes this is not your usual acronym and who ever came up with this did a very good job of inclusiveness as BDSM can mean different things to different people. Of all the years I have been in this lifestyle and the people I have met I have found out that most Indians practice the Bondage and discipline part.
BDSM does not always involve sex and it can be a lifestyle too
Since it can be a lifestyle it can be a state of awareness that you live in. For example you are a submissive you will want people to take control of you in varying degrees. Yes it maybe totally up to you as to how much control you may want to give. But the act of giving up control or assuming control can also be very gratifying.People who are into BDSM are not damaged or deranged
Just because someone wants to inflict pain on someone and someone and someone wants pain to be inflicted on them and suffer does not mean they are deranged. We all have the "other side" to us. If two people are willingly participating in an act that is not damaging physically or mentally but only uplifts each other then its not a crime!
BDSM encounters are called “scenes.” and its your scene that you want to find!
As I already said BDSM is not always sex, So you cant generally say that you laid someone or scored someone with BDSM experience . Instead you say that you scened with someone or had a scene with someone !Free will is still sacrosanct
God created us all to be free. Free will is something to fight the fiercest battles for. If you decide to be a slave to someone you decide it of your own free will. Forcing someone to do something against their will is just criminal. Period.
