I researched a lot about the BDSM scene in Delhi and finally decided to share all I learnt about it. Obviously the intention being to help others in the community and to save them some time :)
Munches are held all over the city in various coffee shops and hotels in Delhi. But munches here are very different than the ones that are held in the west where people are more open to the lifestyle. Generally munches are attended by very small group, not more than 5-6 people most of the times.The biggest munch I have attended was held at a hotel in Delhi over a brunch which consisted of 18 guests(which i personally think was an achievement of the organizers), You need to move among the circles to know the munches happening near you as they may not be publicly advertised. Keep a look out when you are at the following places and you may find a munch going on
Where are the munches held in Delhi/Noida/Gurgaon
Munches are held all over the city in various coffee shops and hotels in Delhi. But munches here are very different than the ones that are held in the west where people are more open to the lifestyle. Generally munches are attended by very small group, not more than 5-6 people most of the times.The biggest munch I have attended was held at a hotel in Delhi over a brunch which consisted of 18 guests(which i personally think was an achievement of the organizers), You need to move among the circles to know the munches happening near you as they may not be publicly advertised. Keep a look out when you are at the following places and you may find a munch going on
- Chaayos M Block Connaught Place
- Cafe Coffee Day, Pallavi Awwa Complex Opposite Taj Palace Hotel, Chanakyapuri,
- Sunday Brunch JW Mariott, Aero
Where to find BDSM toys in Delhi
You can find BDSM toys in Palika Bazaar market in Delhi but the best is to order it online from these sitesWhat can I expect from the BDSM Scene in Delhi
Honestly do not expect too much. Finding good experiences in Delhi can be a little challenging if not impossible, Here are some of my obeservations- You will mostly bump into gay guys who are pretending to be into the lifestyle. I have nothing against them but its just that one ends up meeting a lot of people only to realize that what you seek is different from what they seek.
- There will be a lot of professional escorts who will be ready to play around but you have to shell huge bucks for it
- Fetlife is one place where you can find like minded people but it takes a lot of patiecne to connect to the right people as there are not many active users
- Most do not understand the lifestyle but its just a curiosity/kink they have developed after seeing 50 shades of grey
- If you end up in the right circles you will surely end up getting the experiences that you seek
What are the precautions I must take while exploring BDSM in Delhi
- First and foremost make sure that you understand BDSM as a lifestyle completely and make sure that you are not confusing it with something else. You can find pretty good explanation of the things in the BDSM here
- Always make sure that you have met your play partner couple of times at a public place before getting into a scene. Munches are the best and safest way to meet new people
- Conceal your identity and this is for your own good.
- Understand your limits and be very open about your limits when you talk to a potential partner
- If you indulge in body play make sure that you use "safe words" and safety precautions to avoid causing actual harm
