You are a submissive and you have dark fantasies. What are you going to do about it?

 How many of you feel guilty because of the dark fantasies you have? If you also have dark fantasies probably you also feel guilty to have it. But believe me you are not alone. Most of us have fantasies and since they are fantasies they are too much moved away from reality so we consider it dark. Most get this strong feeling of guilt too. But the thing is that despite the guilt you can not get these fantasies to stop and it makes you feel more guilty.  So what is the best way out if this loop? Simple. Talk to someone about your fantasies, Maybe do a role play and enact it to get it done with once and for all! 

In the world of BDSM sometimes consent is just not enough

 I went on a date this Saturday in a swanky pub in Gurgaon. Generally I don't get into get into personal details on the the first date but somehow I ended up telling her who I am in real life and other details about my profession. I date potential subs and generally being experienced in this game I know what to expect but here I suddenly realized that that my lovely date was already being subservient. We talked for over an hour and in the end I asked her if she was ready for some experimentation to which she readily agreed. But by this time I could sense that there was something amiss and I decided to probe her further. It did not take long for me to realize that although she was looking to be give in as a submissive in our equation but her behaviour was happening because she was a junior in my professional field and she was looking up to me in admiration and respect because of what i do professionally. At this point of time i realized that there is a very thin line between consent that happens because you are actively want to participate in something and consent coming because you are to much in adulation of a person and just can not say no to that person! 

Get my point?